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The client – coach relationship is designed to be open-ended and
long-term, because no one ever attains the goal of fully maximised
potential. However, after 18 to 24 months, two factors may prompt some
clients to begin thinking about changing their coaching relationship.
- Clients who have
experienced significant growth may wish to begin functioning more
independently. In this case, they might agree with their coach to
reduce the frequency of their coaching sessions, or to schedule future
sessions on an ‘as-needed’ basis.
- Other clients may want
to begin a relationship with a new coach, so they can expand their
capabilities through contact with someone who has different skills and
experiences.
Coaches want their clients to
be the best they can be. Jealousy, competitiveness, and possessiveness
have no place in the coaching relationship. That’s why effective
coaches are delighted to refer their clients to other coaches when that
is a positive step in their growth. In fact, experience shows that a
client’s current coach is the primary source of referrals to a
new coach.
When clients move on
to the next phase of their development, coaches naturally feel a sense
of loss. This is overshadowed by the joy and satisfaction of having
been part of client’s process of growth and accomplishment. The
coach tends to feel like a proud parent who is watching a child go off
to college or get married.
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